Saturday, March 21, 2009

This blog is my outlet...


So therefore... you blog readers... are my friends. With that said, I feel like I have been leading a double life and I feel it is time to share a little of my true life with you.


Over the past months, Hubs and I have decided, it is best for B, and ourselves that we not remain married.


Hubs and I are very good friends, but we are not very good married people. We feel that B deserves to grow up with two people that love each other and can show him what a true marriage should be.


This has been an extremely hard decision to come to and it has been a long, winding journey, that we are both still going through.


It is also the reason, my blog posts have been few and far between.


As far as B is concerned, we are both his parents, and we still love him with every ounce of our beings, so we are going to do our very best to be the best parents we can be. He is our main priority and we hope he knows just how much his Mommy and Daddy love him.


I would ask that you pray for B, myself, and Hubs through this VERY difficult time. It has been so hard on everyone, I can only hope it gets better soon.


Love,

Your little Italian!

17 comments:

d.a.r. said...

Oh gosh Andréa...I've wondered where you have been lately! Sorry it hasn't been anyplace fun. I'm definitely praying for you guys, and please know we are here for ya!

CIP said...

OMG. I had no idea things weren't going well. I'm so sorry, but I hope things work out for the best and for B. I'm praying for you!

The Navy Wife said...

Andrea ~ I'm so sorry to hear this but happy you're doing what's best for you and your baby B. Your in my thoughts and prayers. Keep on keeping on!

Lacey Bean said...

Oh I'm so sorry to hear about this, but I am happy that you are doing what's best for you, and for your baby. My thoughts will always be with you during this rough time. You're a strong woman. :)

Lisa said...

Prayers for everyone. I'm so sorry!

Alexa said...

My prayers are for you. If you ever need a getaway to H-Town, lemme know. Me and Blair love good company!

Anonymous said...

Oh Andrea, I'm so sorry to hear about this. Big hugs and lots of supporting thoughts go out to you and baby B.

Michelle said...

We are here for you and you are in my thoughts everyday that everything will work out for the best. We love you baby Drea! XOXO

Julie Q said...

Andrea, I'm so sorry to hear this. I wish you and your family the best during this difficult time. [hugs from Boston]

Anonymous said...

From someone who has been there. You made the right decision for your child.

I wish you all well.

Sarah said...

oh hon, I am so sorry to hear this but I am glad that it is a decision that you both find peace in. I will be thinking of you guys.

Kristen said...

wow. i hope everything works well for you during this major life transition!

missy said...

I'm here for you, praying for you and thinking about you!

Please let me know if there is anything I can do to make this transition in life easier for you. I'm a pretty good babysitter (or so I've been told)....anytime!

Anonymous said...

awww hun so sorry to hear this...didnt realize along the posts that u guys were goin thru rough time...i pray 2 God he gives u teh strength and courage and do whats best 4 u n ur baby lots of love...(((hugs)))

Katelin said...

aw andrea i'm so sorry. i hope you're okay, or as okay as you can be. and i'm definitely here for you :)

HM said...

Sometimes our lives take us down different paths then we thought but it's ok. Of course I will keep you, B and Hubs in our prayers. Good luck Andrea, it'll all be ok.

HM

melissaweyer said...

You are all in my prayers !! Let me know if you need anything :)